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“Why do We Love Playing the Victim in our Marriages and Relationships? What is Our Secret Payoff?” (1634 hits)

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God willing, this Sunday, November 20, 2016, at 8:00 p.m. EST., please join your Marriage and Relationship Servants, Brother Marcus, Sister Cecelia, and TheMarriageKeepers as we confront the topic, “Why do We Love Playing the Victim in our Marriages and Relationships? What is Our Secret Payoff?”

You can participate in our live show for free. You will want to listen in to this show! How you can access the Live Show this Sunday, November 20, 2016, at 8:00 p.m. EST.:

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Abstract / Objectives of this Discussion:
This topic is rated (S) for Singles and (M) for Couples in the process of marriage and (P) for all Parents trying to understand the Children we have produced.

Why are running at top speed from any personal accountability in our marriages? Are you the one who gets blamed for every misfortune, error or mistake in your marriage? If something goes wrong, will your spouse never accept any kind of responsibility? Do they always blame someone or something else, even when a fault is as a result of their own actions? A 'victim mentality' is a particular thought process wherein an individual is simply expecting to experience the feeling of being wronged, cheated, abused, handed out injustice or any other wrong doing possible. This show will focus on understanding and effectively dealing with a spouse who has a victim mentality. Maybe your spouse is not a victim but they always act like one. Why do you bring your victim mentality everywhere you go? What is the often “secret payoff” we get for allowing our spouses, friends, family and others to see us as the perpetual, permanent victim in every relationship? Are we simply playing the victim role to gain sympathy and love for ourselves? How can we change our attitudes and realize our own power to take command of our own lives? How can our personal examples be used to inspire our children to be victorious in their lives and not create more victims?

If you would like to take the opportunity to learn this very important Advanced Relationship and Parenting Skill that we will share by the grace of God this weekend then please join us for this very fascinating dialogue! Our aim is to always support you in your desire to become better future Husbands, Wives and Parents in 2016. In this show, Brother Marcus and Sister Cecelia and our panelists will re-share truly profound, wise words from the Honorable Minister Louis Farrakhan from previously written articles that have appeared in the Final Call Newspaper and from his vast catalog of lectures and speeches that he has delivered throughout the world on the topic of Marriage, Parenting and Family Restoration!

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Dr. Karenga and Minister Farrakhan will address the Conference after the Facilitators for the Seven Issue Area Tracts present summations and recommended action-items for follow-up. The Black Family Summit, an umbrella formation of twenty-seven African-centered Black Professional Organizations that was inspired by Minister Farrakhan’s call to action during the 10th Anniversary of the Million Man March, will receive Special Recognition during the Closing Session. Sister Fredrica Bey, the visionary Founder of Women in Support of the Million Man March, will serve as Moderator. The closing Ndaba/Plenary Session is scheduled for Sunday, November 20th, 9:30 AM – 12:00 Noon.

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About the Brother Marcus, Sister Cecelia and theMarriageKeepers Show:
Brother Marcus and Sister Cecelia Muhammad are active, registered believers in the Nation of Islam and attend Muhammad Mosque #15 under the leadership of the Southern Regional Student Representative of the Honorable Minister Louis Farrakhan, Abdul Sharrieff Muhammad. They have been in the process of marriage for the last 24 years. The Brother Marcus and Sister Cecelia Show is one of the only platforms the Nation and our people have to talk seriously about Marriage, Relationships and Properly Parenting our children in 2016. Our shows are exclusively designed for couples in the process of marriage as well as single people who still desire marriage. The purpose of the show is to help both men and women to line their lives up with the standard of God and make His thoughts and ways the centerpiece of our marriages. This particular show represents our 164th Internet Radio Show in service to the Honorable Minister Louis Farrakhan, His National, Regional and Local, Laborers and other concerned Christian Pastors and Preachers. We wish to promote positive and healthy marriages in our communities and to stop the obsession with divorce among our people! We are striving very hard to use God’s airwaves constructively and offering ‘free, online marriage counseling’ that help to aid us all in becoming character filled, valuable final products! We absolutely love to serve and to minister unto you, and to learn from you and we strive very hard to specialize in discussions that are worthy of discussion!

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